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PALOS VERDES · REGINA ABAYEV, JD, LMFT

Individual Therapy
for Palos Verdes

I offer individual psychotherapy for adults in Palos Verdes, with in-person sessions at my Hermosa Beach office and secure telehealth throughout California.

My practice focuses on understanding the experiences, beliefs, and relationship patterns that influence how people think, feel, and make decisions. I work with clients facing anxiety, relationship difficulties, major life transitions, and questions about identity or personal fulfillment. My approach is thoughtful, direct, and engaged, with an emphasis on developing insight that leads to meaningful changes in daily life.

What We Work On

Anxiety, Overthinking & Perfectionism
Anxiety can involve persistent worry, repetitive thinking, or a heightened sense of responsibility for outcomes that cannot be fully controlled. Perfectionism may reinforce these patterns through demanding expectations and difficulty accepting mistakes or uncertainty.I work with clients to understand what sustains their anxiety and develop greater flexibility in how they respond to uncomfortable thoughts and emotions.
Career Stress, Achievement & Identity
Professional achievement can become closely connected to identity and self-worth. Changes in career direction, responsibilities, or circumstances may prompt a reassessment of priorities and longstanding expectations.Having spent nearly two decades in law, finance, and technology, I understand the complexity of demanding professional environments. In therapy, we can examine how work influences personal identity, relationships, and the decisions that shape life beyond a career.
Relationships & Family Dynamics
Relationships often bring longstanding expectations and patterns of relating into sharper focus. Difficulties with intimacy, communication, boundaries, or conflict may be influenced by experiences that extend well beyond the present relationship.I work with clients navigating dating, marriage, divorce, family relationships, and friendships, helping them recognize their own contributions to recurring dynamics and develop more deliberate ways of relating.
Life Transitions & Difficult Decisions
Divorce, career changes, parenting transitions, retirement, and other changes in circumstances can raise questions about identity, commitments, and the direction of one’s life.Therapy provides an opportunity to examine competing priorities, clarify personal values, and understand the assumptions that may influence difficult choices. I help clients approach these decisions with greater perspective and confidence.
Coping & Compulsive Behaviors
Behaviors such as excessive work, drinking, spending, or compulsive checking can develop as ways of managing distress. Their immediate effects may be reassuring, even as their longer-term consequences become increasingly difficult to ignore.I approach these patterns with curiosity about their psychological function, helping clients understand what they are attempting to manage and develop healthier responses.
Grief, Loss & Trauma
Loss can take many forms, including bereavement, divorce, changes in health, or the end of an important chapter of life. Earlier painful experiences may also continue to influence emotional responses and relationships.Treatment is tailored to the individual and may include relational and psychodynamic exploration or Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART), a structured approach to processing traumatic experiences.
Parenting & Family Relationships
Parenting often raises questions about boundaries, expectations, emotional regulation, and the influence of one’s own upbringing. These issues may become especially complex during adolescence, family transitions, or periods of conflict.I work with parents to understand the dynamics within their families, consider their children’s developmental needs, and respond more thoughtfully to difficult interactions.

How I Work

I am an active and direct therapist. I listen carefully, ask thoughtful questions, offer interpretations, and share observations that may challenge familiar assumptions. I am particularly interested in the patterns that remain difficult to recognize despite considerable self-reflection, and in helping clients translate understanding into different choices.

Before becoming a therapist, I spent nearly two decades working in law, investment banking, and technology, including senior leadership roles. That experience informs my understanding of professional responsibility, organizational complexity, and the personal consequences of difficult decisions.

Clients appreciate my candor, discretion, and willingness to engage with complicated circumstances without judgment. I care deeply about the people I work with and take the trust they place in me seriously.

Sessions & Practical Details

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My office is located at 2309 Pacific Coast Highway, Suite 202, Hermosa Beach, approximately 20–25 minutes from parts of the Palos Verdes Peninsula, depending on traffic and starting location. Client parking is available.
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I offer 50-minute individual sessions. Extended sessions and intensives may also be arranged when appropriate. I offer secure telehealth throughout California, including Palos Verdes.
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My practice is private pay. Current fees and additional scheduling information are available on the FAQ page.
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If you are looking for couples therapy in Palos Verdes, that is a separate page.