Couples Intensives | Regina Abayev, JD, LMFT | Hermosa Beach, CA
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Couples Intensives  ·  Regina Abayev, JD, LMFT

Concentrated
couples work

Extended couples sessions in half-day, full-day, or multi-day formats. Each includes individual time with each partner and joint sessions together, structured around a specific presenting issue.

Couples intensive therapy Hermosa Beach
Why Intensives

When you need
to dive in

Sometimes weekly sessions are enough. Other times there is a need for things to change quickly, or for a decision to be made. We get straight into what is actually happening and figure out what needs to happen next.

Intensives are particularly well suited for couples flying in from out of town or out of state who want to spend dedicated time focused on what matters most to them.

Couples Intensives

Where you are
and what needs to change

Intensives can be open-ended or structured around a presenting issue. Reach out and we will connect about the right format based on what your relationship needs.

01
Conflict Resolution
Half-Day or Full-Day
For couples caught in patterns of escalation, contempt, or recurring conflict. We map the cycle — what triggers it, what each person does inside it, and what keeps it running — then each person takes honest ownership of their contribution. Sessions focus on improving understanding and empathy, building new skills practiced in real time to lower conflict triggers and support healthier functioning.
Includes: Individual sessions with each partner, joint sessions focused on accountability and pattern interruption, and concrete tools for managing escalation outside the room.
02
Infidelity and Betrayal
Two 3-Hour Days or One 4-Hour Day
For couples in the aftermath of betrayal. Whether the goal is structured disclosure, stabilization, or beginning repair, the intensive creates space to address what cannot be held in weekly sessions. This includes betrayals that are emotional, sexual, financial, or related to compulsive behavior. Where appropriate, Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART) is used to address the intrusive memories and trauma symptoms that often make joint work difficult.
Two-day format: Back-to-back days of 3 hours each, allowing processing time between sessions.

Single-day format: 5 hours with a break.
03
Discernment
2-Day Intensive
For couples asking whether there is anything left worth fighting for. The goal is to reach one of three outcomes: stay and commit to working on the relationship, separate, or take more time before deciding. Each path is treated with equal seriousness.
Day One: Joint session, then one hour individually with each partner, then joint session to close.

Day Two: Individual and joint sessions built around what surfaced on day one.
04
Rebuilding Intimacy
Half-Day or Full-Day
For couples where emotional or physical intimacy has significantly diminished. The intensive creates space for direct, informed conversations about intimacy that couples often have not been able to have on their own.
Includes: Individual sessions to understand each person's experience separately, followed by joint sessions to build a shared understanding and a path forward.
05
Reconnect
Half-Day or Full-Day
For couples who are generally functional but have one specific issue creating persistent friction. This includes finances, parenting differences, in-law dynamics, intimacy, life transitions, or a recurring pattern that has not responded to weekly sessions. Sessions focus on that issue directly.
Includes: Individual time with each partner to understand how each person is experiencing the issue, followed by joint sessions focused on the presenting problem.
Formats and Investment

Choose the format
that fits

The right format depends on the issue and how much time you have. All intensives include a detailed pre-session intake questionnaire for both partners and treatment planning time, so we can get straight to it when we meet.

6 Hours
Full-Day Intensive
For situations requiring more sustained depth. Includes a mid-session break.
$2,500
Multiple Days
Multi-Day Intensive
For extended work across consecutive days. Priced by consultation.
By consultation
Email info@reginaabayev.com to discuss
Client Experiences

In their
own words

"

"I could not stop replaying my husband's affair. I could not sleep or focus on work. After an ART intensive, I slept through the night for the first time in weeks. The memories are still there, but they no longer consume me the way they did."

Betrayal  ·  Intensive Client
"

"I came in angry and expecting to be chastised. I was so used to my partner and therapists trying to pull me back in. This was the first time I felt I could be honest about my ambivalence without being judged."

Discernment  ·  Intensive Client
"

"We came in rough shape and were on the verge of separating. There was so much anger and resentment between us. Regina held each of us accountable for our own behavior and helped us work through what we were each carrying."

Couples Intensive  ·  Client
Frequently Asked Questions

What to know
before you book

Do both partners need to attend?

Yes. Both partners need to be present. Individual time with each partner and joint sessions are both part of every format.

Where do sessions take place?

In person at the Hermosa Beach office, or virtually for couples anywhere in California. In-person is recommended for multi-day and full-day formats when possible.

How do we choose the right format?

Email info@reginaabayev.com with a brief description of your situation. A consultation call follows to determine the right intensive and timing.

Is an intensive a replacement for ongoing therapy?

Not necessarily. Some couples use an intensive as a starting point before transitioning to weekly sessions. Others use it to address a specific issue within an ongoing course of work. The right approach depends on where you are and what you need.

Do you accept insurance?

This is a cash-pay practice. Intensives are not billed through insurance. A superbill can be provided upon request for potential out-of-network reimbursement.

How to Book

Ready to
get started?

info@reginaabayev.com