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When work burnout starts affecting your relationship
Burnout and Overachievement Regina Abayev 6/8/26 Burnout and Overachievement Regina Abayev 6/8/26

When work burnout starts affecting your relationship

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Understanding Shame and High Achievement: The Internal Cost of Performance-Based Worth
Burnout and Overachievement Regina Abayev 5/29/26 Burnout and Overachievement Regina Abayev 5/29/26

Understanding Shame and High Achievement: The Internal Cost of Performance-Based Worth

An analytical look at how early survival strategies drive chronic overworking, perfectionism, and high standards. Discover the psychological mechanism behind performance-based self-worth and how therapy helps high achievers separate utility from intrinsic value.

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The Stranger in the Mirror: Why Success Can Feel Like a Loss of Self
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The Stranger in the Mirror: Why Success Can Feel Like a Loss of Self

The emptiness you feel at the top isn't a gratitude problem; it’s an identity crisis. Explore the psychological distinction between your "Inherited Self" and your "Intrinsic Self," and why success often requires a loss of self that must be reclaimed.

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What Your Body’s Trying to Tell You About Stress (And Why It Matters)
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What Your Body’s Trying to Tell You About Stress (And Why It Matters)

Feeling exhausted, irritable, and not yourself? It might be allostatic load—the wear and tear of chronic stress. Learn why you feel this way and how to break the cycle.

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The Line Between Ambition and Addiction: Are You a Hard Worker or a Workaholic?
Burnout and Overachievement Regina Abayev 3/7/25 Burnout and Overachievement Regina Abayev 3/7/25

The Line Between Ambition and Addiction: Are You a Hard Worker or a Workaholic?

For driven professionals, success at work often strains the most important relationship. Learn why capable partners feel overextended, the cognitive cost of constant firefighting, and a strategic path to rebuild connection without sacrificing ambition.

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Is Your Job Burning You Out? The Power of Boundaries in the Workplace
Burnout and Overachievement Regina Abayev 12/23/24 Burnout and Overachievement Regina Abayev 12/23/24

Is Your Job Burning You Out? The Power of Boundaries in the Workplace

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Feeling Overwhelmed and Undervalued? It's Time to Set Some Boundaries.
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Feeling Overwhelmed and Undervalued? It's Time to Set Some Boundaries.

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When alcoholism turns into workaholism
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When alcoholism turns into workaholism

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The cost of putting yourself last: signs of burnout
Burnout and Overachievement Regina Abayev 11/27/24 Burnout and Overachievement Regina Abayev 11/27/24

The cost of putting yourself last: signs of burnout

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Regina Abayev, JD, LMFT
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist
Hermosa Beach, CA  ·  LMFT #148775
2309 PCH, Suite 202, Hermosa Beach (323) 646-6263 info@reginaabayev.com
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